The food delivery woman knocked at my door and she just came up so early today. I asked her the reason and she said, “Raat hoyejachhe tai taratari chole elam (its getting late thats why I am in a hurry)”
For some people it would be obvious, for others it would be rebellious. They might end up being late with something lame as, “if boys can stay out late why can’t we?”
And here every definition of feminism, equality and respect start losing their existence.
Women now have started calculating their success comparing with men. Like by stating of being equal physically and mentally. Every species on earth has been unique for their features, and we are not bound to compare any of them.
Women has been worshipped since ages for their attributes their strength, their capabilities to rule and their intelligence. And we cannot disrespect the creator by being harsh and arrogant just to show ourselves equal to men. We bring up equality but it should end up being equity. People outside are given extra facilities and different treatment when introduced as women, they do so to make them equal to men, but end up being a threat to both the genders. There have been cases were men are not guilty but accused because he confronted a women. It is more like a winning a match by inheritance and sex and not by capabilities. Maybe this thought has come up because a large section of women are still under the threat of assualts and harassment. But criminals are to be accused not every men who walks across her in an empty road at night.
“She is a girl, pay her respect. Dont talk to her like that”
To the people who say these,
“Are you allowed to disrespect men out of nowhere? Are you allowed to talk nonsense to the other genders?”
An utopian society would be where a girl would get equal opportunities neither less nor more than men,
Equal facilities neither less nor more,
Equal results as per her capability, neither more nor less
That is feminism, where you see the human getting what “it” deserves on the basis of their deeds and not their sex.
Feminism has always been about equity
Not about dominating ideology and pulling excuses in the name of equality.
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